Logic dictates that spinning the turbo backwards or stalling it when the throttles are closed, is a bad thing... but apparently it doesn't do as much damage as people think. - I can't remember where I got that from, so I'm happy for people to tell me otherwise.
On the duarbility issue of not running a DV. Standard bearings are not as strong as uprated bearings. However if we were worried about durability we would all be running at 0.7Bar and there aren't many people who are. I know of people who have run on a standard turbo without a DV and had no problems. I know of people who run a DV and have had their turbo fail. Does running without a DV make a turbo fail? Its just another factor in driving a 19 year old car.
Personally I don't run a DV as the engine responds marginally better without it.
A common mistake people make is they think the "turbo" stalls or goes back wards. It doesn't, its the air that's stopped moving forwards, the compressor will continue to spin. As the throttle is closed the air has no where to go so stops moving forward, stalls and starts leaking out wherever it can. Some will go back over the blades which makes a fluttering noise.
Pressure in the intake system drops but it does so more slowly than when using a DV where the pressure is released quickly. Between a half second gear change you can see my intake pressure drop from 1.9Bar to about 0.8bar before climbing back to 1.9Bar when the throttle re-opens. With a DV it drops to 0bar in tenths of a second. My turbo is quite responsive and my intercooler pipework is minimal so the difference is tenths of seconds between no DV and a DV. IIRC you run 1 bar and a TMIC so you might find it all marginal as well. If you had a huge intercooler, long pipe run and a DV you might find a more significant difference in lag. Best solution then is not to run a large intercooler and have a huge pipe run rather than worrying what your DV is doing ;-)
Now think what your recirc DV is doing, is it really "feeding air" back into the turbo? If the high pressure air is moving to atmospheric pressure between the air filter and the compressor, the higher pressure air after the compressor will also want to go past the compressor blades to the lower pressure area. If you consider my setup with no DV loses about 1Bar of pressure between gear changes, can you imagine the re-circed air is going to make any difference to the amount of air pouring past the compressor wheel? Whether you use a DV, recirc or nothing, it will all get down to atmospheric pressure sooner or later.
George, I've got my old DV you can have if you want. It goes "ppsssh"

I'm not sure how desirable the noise is? You can swap over and see if it makes any difference to the response or noise.
Buy me a coffee at the next meet or a burger if you're feeling flush ;-)